Dear Employed Person,
First,
congratulations on being employed during these challenging times. You know that it can change on a dime and it could be you seeking advice or a connection.
So,
the next time a friend, family member or acquaintance either calls you or
emails you, acknowledge them. Respond, call back and treat them the way you
would want someone to treat you if you were in the same position. If you can’t
help, let them know you wish you could. If you have any thoughts or tips, share
them.
Since
companies are leaner and meaner, you’re probably doing twice the work and most
likely can’t get back to people immediately, that’s okay but no need to keep
them waiting for weeks. And in all fairness to you, you may have good emails in
your junk mail file - visit it every now and then.
The
thing about email versus a phone call, you don’t have to spend time talking
about the weather or asking about the family or spending time on the phone for all to
see in the new open space model of most companies.
The New York Times recently ran a piece on unanswered emails. There were
some very good points and there were a couple of lame excuses, read for
yourself.
To
the unemployed, wait a couple of weeks and follow up. If you still don’t hear
back, move on, you’ll regret sending that email that gently scolded the
non-responder. Remember, they don’t think they’re rude; they’re just too busy
for you. And maybe one day, you’ll be able to show them that you know better
when they come calling on you.